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Abi
Catchlove

Held Counselling Space is a safe space to explore the depths and nuance of personhood, whether that

is navigating grief, anxiety, people-pleasing, feeling lost or disconnected, relational challenges, stress,

trauma or low self-worth. Together, we are curious, we are kind to whatever surfaces. A soft place to hold

the light and the dark with care and an invitation to commune with your deep Self.

Experience

I am a Masters-trained and PACFA clinically registered counsellor with over 6 years experience, and over 12 years working in education with culturally-diverse populations. My specialty has been supporting people navigating grief, loss & life changes, principally using EMDR therapy with an IFS-informed lens.

I am drawn to the depth of this work, holding space for us to explore together what's surfacing in you, with curiosity and compassion. I believe holding space begins with a grounded sense of presence, and I always strive to embody my values, thus my counselling practices are guided by authenticity, curiosity and empathy, while recognising you as the expert in your life.

You are welcome here: I acknowledge that reaching out and being open to therapy takes courage, thank

you for making this time and space for yourself. I look forward to connecting with you.

Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing (EMDR)

'The work of the eyes is done. Go now and do the heart-work on the images imprisoned within you.'

Rainer Maria Rilke

 

EMDR is considered a gold standard therapy for trauma, which can include anxiety, stress, depression,self-esteem and grief. It allows the brain to process events so that memories with distressing emotions,negative self-beliefs and other ongoing negative impacts are no longer attached. This empowers people

to live in the present with deeper internal clarity, safety and direction. Trained through the EMDR Institute

(founded by Dr. Francine Shapiro, the originator of EMDR), I am thrilled to integrate this approach into my practice; it is an honour to witness clients move forward with insight and newfound energy.

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Grief + Loss

'Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside, you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.'

- Naomi Shihab Nye

 

Grief is our human response to loss, and we can experience it through death, loss of relationship, shifts in identity, ecological grief, career changes, or loss of an anticipated future. The law of nature is impermanence, which means we are constantly invited to adapt to change; in minute and monumental ways. Even though navigating emotional landscapes as we sit with loss can be complex and overwhelming, I believe grief can act as a medicine; an expansive offering towards healing. All feelings towards our losses are valid. Processing grief in therapy can allow space to make meaning of your loss, whatever form it takes. Dedicated to holistic wellbeing, I am here to accompany people alongside their

grief, knowing that even though it is deeply personal and private; it’s also a universal experience we can lean into collectively; where solidarity and connection meet.

Emotional + Relational Understanding

 

'Make small steps. In this wild place there are signs of life everywhere.'

- Ashley M. Jones

 

Navigating and putting language to our emotions can be confusing and overwhelming. With curiosity, our

time together is dedicated to understanding your needs and making meaning from your values. This way,

we can notice and hold space for your emotional experience. Using philosophical principles, creativity-led

and mindfulness-based practices, I draw on IFS and EMDR to make room for all the parts seeking attention for a deeper sense of self-understanding. In our longing for connection and belonging, there can be difficult dynamics within our friendships, relationships and families. Through deeper understanding of

our self, we can be present with others and communicate our needs with authenticity and kindness.

Qualifications

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Master of Counselling

PACFA Registered Clinical Counsellor

EMDR Therapist (EMDR Institute-trained)

Bachelor of Edu/Arts

Rates

Face to face in Moana on Tuesdays

Individual appointments from $140

Relationship appointments from $220

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